My wife and I realized that we’re just over 2 years in to this bankruptcy. A lot of things have changed since we started this. We have made a new chart of our progress, and we’re still trucking along.
As you can see from the chart (and the surrounding stuff) my wife and I do our best to motivate ourselves and our 2 kids with quotes that we find that are helpful, reminders of how far we’ve come (the chart, including the filled-in spaces for braces and 2 used replacement vehicles we bought), and reminders of what our family is all about (the family mission statement that we made with our kids, and the Dave Ramsey baby steps).
My favorite quote from the chart so far?
“Character is what you have left when you’ve lost everything you can lose”
The ‘Better explained’ blog has a great article on ‘understanding debt’:
Some highlights from the article:
Getting a mortgage: As we saw, borrowing money to buy a house is a form of leverage. With 5% down (a 20x gearing ratio), your house only needs to drop by 5% to lose money. With 0% down, your house has to drop… wait for it… any amount for you to lose! And after your house is worth less than your mortgage, there’s little incentive to pay it off (better to go bankrupt, depending on the debt).
The three big credit reporting agencies—Experian, TransUnion, and Equifax—have been inaccurately reporting debts on millions of consumers’ credit reports even after the debts have been forgiven through the bankruptcy process. Once forgiven, the debts should be removed from credit reports, but the agencies are continuing to report them as active.
Now they have until October 1st to comply with Judge David O. Carter’s order to “revamp their systems,” writes Jane J. Kim on the Wall Street Journal’s finance blog. If you’ve gone through the pain of bankruptcy, you can look forward to not having unpaid debts on your credit report.
After 30 days, the pair calculated their spending decreased 24 percent when compared to the previous month.
As more homeowners get over their heads in debt, I’m sure we’re going to see this happening more often: “Foreclose on me. Please”
The blog post in the LA Times makes an interesting point near the end of the article:
“I realize I agreed to the deal when I signed the mortgage papers, but I am within my rights to walk away from a bad deal and suffer the consequences, just as many corporations write down billions of dollars of debt, lose money for their shareholders, and lay off people as a result of their bad decisions.
“I don’t really understand why people view a business decision by a homeowner as a terrible moral lapse. However, when large lending institutions, with access to more sophisticated information than any consumer could imagine, make mistakes affecting thousands of people worldwide, they are not excoriated and vilified with the same righteous zeal.”
It is very interesting that bankruptcy isn’t treated as just another consequence to a bad business transaction by most folks. (If you recently decided to file, I’m sure you’re quickly discovering this). Somehow, your morals are on the line when you file your paperwork — you don’t just have a business problem, you have an ethical problem.
Why is that? (Especially in the case of a Chapter 13 bankruptcy)